Bible and Homosexuality - Sex is Sin

My last post on how Transmen have sex inspired me to create this spin-off about how the Bible relates sex to sin.  This is another post in my series on the Bible and homosexuality.  I am still working on that series for those of you that are interested so I apologize that it has taken so long to make another post about it.  Also, I will be writing about Sodom and Gomorrah soon, I promise.
Basically, my point here will be how absurd it is to condemn a person based on what type of sex they have.  Before I even get to what the Bible says I would like to point out just how little we even have sex.
The average person:
Starts having sex at age 17 and stops having sex at age 70 which means they have a sexual life span of 53 years.
During one act of sex has foreplay for 20 minutes and sex for 5 minutes which means the total act lasts 25 minutes.
Has sex 103 times per year.
25 x 103 = 2,572  which is how many minutes per year they will have sex.
2,572 x 53 = 136,475  which is how many minutes they will have sex in a lifetime.
The average person lives 75 years which is 39,446,175 minutes.
136,475 / 39,446,175 = .0034597...
When multiplied by 100 this gives us .345978
So the average person spends only .35% of their life in the act of sex.
So, why are we making it out to be such a big deal?  I personally think it is erroneous to condemn someone for an act that they will spend less than 1% of their life doing.  And might I mention, it has no affect on anyone else anyway.
Now, lets see what the Bible says.  If you look carefully you can see that sex was never part of God's original plan and that sex in itself, no matter who is doing it or how, is a sin.  In Genesis Chapter 2 Verse 25 we read that Adam and Eve were both naked and unashamed.  From this we gather that they don't know what their nakedness is or what can be done with their naked bodies.  In Chapter 3 Verse 7 after Adam and Eve have eaten from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil the "eyes of them both were opened and they knew that they were naked."  Then they sewed fig leaves together and covered themselves.  Now that they have eaten from the tree and they know what sin is they are ashamed of their bodies because they realize their bodies can be vessels of sin.  Later, God asks them why they are hiding their bodies and demands to know if they have eaten from the tree.  This tells us that God never intended for Adam and Eve to know what nakedness is or to know what their bodies were capable of.  It isn't until Chapter 4 Verse 1 after Adam and Eve have been cast out of the Garden of Eden that they have sex.  From this we can conclude that all sex is sinful and God never intended for any of us to have sex.
For those of you who think my logic is flawed because the Bible refers to Adam and Eve as husband and wife and mentions them lying with one another before this happens I would like to point out that the Bible is filled with foreshadowing.   Almost everything that happens in the Bible is mentioned at least once before the Bible actually comes to telling its story.  In other words, the Bible will allude to things that have not happened yet and will later tell the story in full and explain how the events took place.  I find it obvious that's what's happening here as well.
Since sex is sin and no sin can be more sinful than any other sin then it is absurd to condemn anyone based on what type of sex they have.  None of us have the right to point fingers and say, "Your sin is worse than mine," we all just need to atone for our own sin and move on with our lives.

Tranny Sex

I have been avoiding this topic for a long time, but I can't avoid it forever and I have a friend who suggested it so I'm just going to do my best.  Basically, this topic is huge.  There are almost an unlimited amount of sub-topics under the main topic of sex so of course I can't cover it all in this one blog post.  However, I would like to try to touch on what most people seem to be curious about which is how do non-op or pre-op Transmen have sex (Since I'm not a Transwoman I don't feel I can speak for them).

First of all, everyone is different and not every Transman will want to have sex the same way.  Some Transmen won't want their genitalia touched at all, some will want only their clit's fondled, and others will be comfortable with everything being touched.  It's important to talk to the person that you are with and make sure you are compatible.  By that I mean you both want the same things or at least can agree on how to have sex to make you both happy.  Also, keep in mind that while some Transmen want to be with women and would be considered straight some Transmen want to be with men and are therefore gay.

For Transmen that wish to penetrate there are several options.  You can simply use your fingers, you can use a hard packer, you can use a strap-on, or you can use a strapless strap-on.  Fingers are a great option because you can target the g-spot specifically, you have a wider range of and greater control over the rhythm, and you can orally stimulate your partner at the same time.  The draw-back is that your arm can get tired too quickly, you can't go very deep, and you don't get the same sensation of having sex as a man that you would if you were thrusting.  If you do want that sensation you can try one of the other methods.

A hard packer is one way to get the sensation of having cis sex.  A hard packer is a device that you use to pack your pants so that you have a bulge like a penis and some even have a stand-to-pee device included.  They are different from soft packers in that they usually are longer and they are stiffer so that they can be used during sex.  The drawbacks to hard packers are that they can be too long and stiff so that you walk around looking like you have a hard on all the time and if you buy a smaller or less stiff model it might not work as well for sex.  Also, the harnesses for them can be quite expensive.  Therefore, a lot of people prefer to use a soft packer and use a strap-on for sex.

Strap-ons are very versatile and come in many different shapes, sizes, and even colors.  Some even have vibrating functions to enhance the pleasure of the receiver.  Others, called dual pleasure strap-ons, have nubs, bumps, ticklers, and vibrators to give pleasure to the wearer as well.  The problem with a lot of strap-ons is that the actual straps are not well made and do not keep the device in place.  Even if you can get one that you like with tight, secure straps you might not like the way the straps look.  That's why some Transmen prefer what are called strapless strap-ons.

A strapless strap-on is a dildo with an extra phallic nub coming off the base at a right angle.  This short, round nub, for lack of a better word, is what goes in the "wearer" and the phallus comes out between the legs and protrudes like a penis would.  This is the most lifelike of all the options and can be very pleasurable to both partners.  The wearer is able to receive sensation from the inserted part and from the phallus shaft rubbing on the clit and genitals.  Some also come with vibrating bullets that both partners can feel.  However, there can be two main problems with this option.  First, it's important to do a lot of research to find out what model is best because the nub can be uncomfortable if it's not shaped right and if it's too small it might simply slip out.  Also, you shouldn't use this model if you are very dysphoric about your body and won't be comfortable with the fact that it is inserted.

Of course, these are not the only ways of having sex with your partner and you can use any toy you would like or not use any toys at all.  These are just the basic ways to mimic the way that cis people have sex.  Obviously, no matter what method you choose you will have to do a lot of research and talk openly with your partner so that you make the best choice for both of you.  In the end, go for the least complicated method and make sure you are both having fun.  After all, that's what it's all about.

Good night!  ;D