Showing posts with label gay sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gay sex. Show all posts

Thursday, July 31, 2014

Bible and Homosexuality - Sodom and Gomorrah

In this post I will attempt to answer whether or not the story of Sodom and Gomorrah proves homosexuality to be a sin.  I have been putting off the responsibility of writing this post for a long time because their are so many elements to consider and so little information given.  However, I have read several versions from several Bibles, read others’ ideas on the matter, and pondered this question for long enough that I now feel fully prepared to give my opinion.


The first thing I noticed while reading this story is that thus far there are no specific rules of conduct that are established to be followed.  There are not commandments, nor any other lists of rules.  The only thing that is certain is that God requires people to know, love, and obey him.  Other than that we are given two clues to what God believes is sin.  The first is in Genesis 6:5 which reads, “And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.”  The second is in Genesis 6:11 which reads, “The earth also was corrupt before God, and the earth was filled with violence.”


The second thing I noticed is that, although this story is usually told as if God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah based on what happened after the angels arrived, God actually made plans to destroy the cities and then sent the angels to determine if this was necessary.  In Genesis 18:20-21 God speaks to Abraham about His plans when he says, “...Because the cry of Sodom and Gomorrah is great, and because their sin is very grievous; I will go down now, and see whether they have done altogether according to the cry of it…”  Abraham, knowing his nephew Lot lived there, became concerned and implored God not to destroy the city for the sake of the righteous men their.  God promises, in Genesis 18:32 that if he can find even just ten righteous men he will not destroy the cities.


As the story continues we see that Lot meets the angels at the gate to the cities, offers them shelter in his home, and that night all the men of the cities demand that Lot allow them to “know” the angels.  Subsequently, the angels agree that the cities are filled with wickedness and God destroys them, saving only Lot.  If you believe homosexuality is wrong, of course you can read this to agree with your opinion.  However, that’s much too presumptuous and leaves out too many factors.


First, Lot met the angels at the gate, which implies that he knew or recognized them somehow.  Abraham knew these men and recognized them as angels who walked with God, so it is safe to assume that Lot also either knew them already or could see that they were angels.  This would prove that he is a man of God and keeps company with God regularly as Abraham does.  Because the other men of the city did not recognize these men or know them as angels this would imply that they have no relationship with God and are therefore not righteous men.  Furthermore, when the men demand to “know,” or have sex with, the angels they are showing a lack of respect for God and his kingdom.  There lack of respect seems more significant to me than in what form they chose it to be shown.


Since many people seem to overlook the fact that these men were showing violence and contempt towards angels, I’ll focus on the idea that these men wanted to “know” other men.  Well, that may be true, but what they were really wanting was to rape these men.  Calling raping a man homosexuality is like calling a square a rectangle.  Yes, a square is a rectangle, but you are blatantly ignoring the fact that it is a very specific type of rectangle.  Rape is a very violent act and God has already shown his contempt for violence.  Now, you may want to jump in and say, “Well, what about Lot offering his daughters to be raped?”  While this is true (and disturbing) there are two good reasons why this is different and does not prove that homosexuality is the wrong being committed.  As I said before, Lot most likely knew these men were angels.  I say this both because he met them at the gates and because he was not surprised at all nor did he question them when they delivered their message from God.  Wouldn't you do almost anything to protect God and his kingdom or also to stay in God’s good graces?  Secondly, even if you don't agree that Lot knew these men were angels, it is obvious that at this point in history men were valued exponentially more than women.  A woman being sacrificed to save a man is not surprising at all.


For these reasons, I believe that this story proves only that violence against a man and/or contempt for God and his kingdom is seen as the ultimate wickedness/sin and that homosexuality, in and of itself, is not seen or commented on in this story.  Therefore, I really don't believe this story alone could prove homosexuality is a sin.

I hope you enjoyed this exploration of the Bible and homosexuality and, if you did, please stay tuned for the next installment of this series!

Friday, March 7, 2014

Bible and Homosexuality - Sex is Sin

My last post on how Transmen have sex inspired me to create this spin-off about how the Bible relates sex to sin.  This is another post in my series on the Bible and homosexuality.  I am still working on that series for those of you that are interested so I apologize that it has taken so long to make another post about it.  Also, I will be writing about Sodom and Gomorrah soon, I promise.
Basically, my point here will be how absurd it is to condemn a person based on what type of sex they have.  Before I even get to what the Bible says I would like to point out just how little we even have sex.
The average person:
Starts having sex at age 17 and stops having sex at age 70 which means they have a sexual life span of 53 years.
During one act of sex has foreplay for 20 minutes and sex for 5 minutes which means the total act lasts 25 minutes.
Has sex 103 times per year.
25 x 103 = 2,572  which is how many minutes per year they will have sex.
2,572 x 53 = 136,475  which is how many minutes they will have sex in a lifetime.
The average person lives 75 years which is 39,446,175 minutes.
136,475 / 39,446,175 = .0034597...
When multiplied by 100 this gives us .345978
So the average person spends only .35% of their life in the act of sex.
So, why are we making it out to be such a big deal?  I personally think it is erroneous to condemn someone for an act that they will spend less than 1% of their life doing.  And might I mention, it has no affect on anyone else anyway.
Now, lets see what the Bible says.  If you look carefully you can see that sex was never part of God's original plan and that sex in itself, no matter who is doing it or how, is a sin.  In Genesis Chapter 2 Verse 25 we read that Adam and Eve were both naked and unashamed.  From this we gather that they don't know what their nakedness is or what can be done with their naked bodies.  In Chapter 3 Verse 7 after Adam and Eve have eaten from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil the "eyes of them both were opened and they knew that they were naked."  Then they sewed fig leaves together and covered themselves.  Now that they have eaten from the tree and they know what sin is they are ashamed of their bodies because they realize their bodies can be vessels of sin.  Later, God asks them why they are hiding their bodies and demands to know if they have eaten from the tree.  This tells us that God never intended for Adam and Eve to know what nakedness is or to know what their bodies were capable of.  It isn't until Chapter 4 Verse 1 after Adam and Eve have been cast out of the Garden of Eden that they have sex.  From this we can conclude that all sex is sinful and God never intended for any of us to have sex.
For those of you who think my logic is flawed because the Bible refers to Adam and Eve as husband and wife and mentions them lying with one another before this happens I would like to point out that the Bible is filled with foreshadowing.   Almost everything that happens in the Bible is mentioned at least once before the Bible actually comes to telling its story.  In other words, the Bible will allude to things that have not happened yet and will later tell the story in full and explain how the events took place.  I find it obvious that's what's happening here as well.
Since sex is sin and no sin can be more sinful than any other sin then it is absurd to condemn anyone based on what type of sex they have.  None of us have the right to point fingers and say, "Your sin is worse than mine," we all just need to atone for our own sin and move on with our lives.